August 14, 2023

One of the common complaints we hear is how parents work with professionals that they trusted to solve their family conflict and pathology–and yet only made matters worse. This is particularly the case when there is a sudden parent-child cutoff, false narratives about the said-parent, and the therapist doesn’t investigate further. What parents and professionals often

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August 10, 2023

Remember, just because you are dealing with a high-conflict co-parent, doesn’t mean it is impossible to co-exist with them. It may feel like it at times, and yet it is always possible to mitigate conflict. Here are 3 ways to ease a high-conflict co-parenting dynamic. 1. Show Up DifferentlyHear me out. It’s easy to frequently get

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August 7, 2023

A lot of you probably get advice and suggestions for how to reunite with a child. “What to do if you are alienated from your child” or “what to do if your co-parent is withholding” and etc – and we offer tips and guidance in that way as well. However, sometimes it is downright more effective

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August 3, 2023

Life is full of ups and downs, and it’s not always easy to stay ‘happy’ when you’re…well, sad. Especially when you are not in relationship with your own child, as this is one of the most painful experiences. However, there are ways to be happy despite these tough times, and it will actually help you. First,

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July 31, 2023

If you’re reading this, chances are you are not in relationship with your child right now. It is deeply troubling and sad when this happens, especially when it is unwarranted or could have been prevented. There is an entire population of children who have lost a parent due to death, and yet you are living

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July 27, 2023

If you’re early on in the stages of separation/divorce, our hearts are with you. Now, getting down to the logistics… a necessary part of divorce… right now you have ample opportunity to make sure it goes smooth sailing- presently and for the long haul. Too often, separating parents fail to get the proper support they need,

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